There is no way to lessen the sorrow of your loss, but please remember others care very much and wish you strength and comfort. I want to share my most treasured memory with you. Eileen and Jules had just just become the proud parents of Kelly. I was priveleged to be invited to their apartment to spend an afternoon with the new family. Eileen let me change Kelly's diaper and let me take her to the playground for what I thought was an unsupervised time with Kelly. Much to my surprise but true to Eileen's love for her children, I saw Eileen sitting way off in the distance. I will always treasure the memory of that very special day we shared. Eileen always remembered our birthday's and our children's birthday's she made us all feel loved and she never gave herself credit for the phenomenal person she was and for the endless love and support she offered to others. I will miss you Eileen. Love, edna benson and family